EPISODE 0244 | The Power of Your Words: James 3 with Pastor Whit George

THESE NOTES ACCOMPANY EPISODE 0244

In this message, guest speaker Pastor Whit George unpacks the surprising centrality of our words in the process of becoming more like Christ. Drawing from James 3, Pastor Whit shows that spiritual maturity isn’t just about how much we know—it’s about how well we control our tongue. With humor, clarity, and a deep love for the local church, he challenges us to examine the way we speak to our spouses, our coworkers, our kids—and even strangers in traffic.


Main Topics Covered:

  • Why James places the tongue at the center of discipleship

  • The connection between our words and our spiritual growth

  • How small words lead to big consequences

  • Why careless speech can unravel families, friendships, and churches

  • Common Christian excuses for sinful speech (e.g. “I’m just blunt”)

  • What it means to unite your heart to fear the Lord

Key Scriptures:

  • James 3:1–12 – The tongue is a small member, but it boasts of great things

  • Psalm 141:3 – Set a guard, O Lord, over my mouth

  • Proverbs 18:21 – Death and life are in the power of the tongue

  • Ecclesiastes 5:2 – Let your words be few

  • Ephesians 4:29 – Only speak what builds up and gives grace to the hearer

  • Matthew 12:36–37 – We’ll give account for every careless word

  • Luke 6:45 – Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks

Key Takeaways:

  • Your words reveal your maturity. You can’t claim to be spiritually mature if you don’t control your tongue.

  • The tongue is a steering wheel. If you can’t manage what you say, you won’t be able to manage where your life goes.

  • Words can be weapons. We often do the most damage to the people we claim to love the most.

  • Excuses don’t sanctify sin. “That’s just how I was raised” doesn’t work in the Kingdom of God.

  • Spiritual growth means taming the wild animal in your mouth.

  • Real change starts with repentance. What comes out of your mouth is a reflection of what’s still undealt with in your heart.


Resources


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