EPISODE 0248 | God-First Relationships: The Missing Ingredient for Lasting Love
THESE NOTES ACCOMPANY EPISODE 0248
In this powerful closing session of the Strong Marriage Conference, Pastor Lee delivers one of the most practical, vulnerable, and hilarious talks yet—equipping couples to take their marriages off autopilot and into a life of purpose, passion, and partnership. Through real stories, biblical wisdom, and a healthy dose of laughter, he shows how intentionality can restore connection, rekindle love, and rewrite the future of your relationship.
Whether you're newlyweds or decades in, this is the marriage reset you didn’t know you needed.
Main Topics Covered:
How to recognize the warning signs that your marriage is coasting
Why weddings are intentional but marriages often aren’t
The power of emotional connection, gratitude, and shared spontaneity
Replacing assumptions with communication
What the four seasons of marriage teach us about change and endurance
The role of the Holy Spirit in building a God-first relationship
What it means to restart—and why some couples need to re-vow
Why your spouse shouldn’t feel like a ghost or a robot in their own home
Key Scriptures:
Philippians 2:3–4 – “Let each of you look out not only for his own interests…”
Mark 3:25 – “A house divided against itself cannot stand”
Proverbs 3:5–6 – “Lean not on your own understanding…”
1 Chronicles 16:5 – “Glory and majesty are found in His presence”
Key Takeaways:
💡 Great marriages don’t just happen—they’re built on purpose
🔁 Sometimes you don’t need to start over—you just need to restart
💬 Talking isn’t communicating—learn to listen and speak with grace
💋 Rekindling romance isn’t about roses—it’s about being present
🕊️ The Holy Spirit gives signs: Do Not Enter, Exit, Under Construction
💍 Recommitment isn’t cheesy—it’s powerful. Renewing vows matters
🥶 Winter seasons come… but spring is on the other side
Marriage isn’t about perfection—it’s about being present. Be intentional. Invite God in. And whatever season you’re in, don’t go it alone.
Resources
The Better Planner™ is a personal planner designed by Pastor Stephen to help you map out all the different aspects of success and personal growth on your way to better.
The foundation of the Better Planner™ is the practice of defining and reaching your personal vision. The other principles for growth all integrate with and flow out of this essential step. As you develop and record the insights you receive from God and His design for your life, the Better Planner™ will lead you through a step-by-step process to become better.
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