EPISODE 0254 | Breaking Generational Patterns in Marriage
THESE NOTES ACCOMPANY EPISODE 0254
Pastor Nate and Pastor Daniel return with a special Q&A episode, tackling real questions from real couples—many submitted during Vintage Church’s recent Strong Marriage Conference. From breaking generational cycles to identifying early signs of spiritual drift, this episode dives deep into the struggles modern marriages face and how God’s Word offers a way forward.
Whether you're newly married, in a blended family, or trying to lead when your spouse isn’t on the same page, this is a practical and hope-filled conversation for every season.
Key Takeaways:
Breaking generational dysfunction: What to do when your family tree is full of divorce, failure, or fathers who walked away—and how to build a new legacy without living in fear.
The danger of internal narratives: Are you replaying imaginary conversations with your spouse? This common drift warning sign could be sabotaging your connection.
What spiritual leadership actually looks like: Pastor Nate shares how running too far ahead can collapse the tent—and what it means to lead with gentleness and humility.
Reframing your fights: How fear of failure can become self-fulfilling, and why laying down your flesh changes the game.
What every couple needs to hear about prayer and personal time with God: Why spiritual intimacy starts alone—and then flows together.
Resources
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