12/29/25

Breaking Free from Autopilot: Biblical Strategies for an Intentional Marriage | Under God Podcast Episode 248

In a world that prioritizes convenience over commitment, too many marriages slip into autopilot mode—going through the motions without genuine connection, communication, or purpose. In this powerful episode from the Strong Marriage Conference, Pastor Lee delivers a transformative message on creating an intentional marriage that honors God and brings life to your relationship.

Pastor Lee vulnerably shares how a pivotal 2009 conversation with his wife Tanya revealed emotional distance he didn't even know existed—and how being intentional about breaking out of his comfort zone transformed their marriage. From learning to dance for his wife to understanding the fundamental differences in how men and women communicate, this episode offers practical wisdom for couples in every season of marriage.

What You'll Discover:

✅ The three warning signs that your marriage is operating on autopilot

✅ How to identify which of the four seasons your marriage is currently in

✅ Why your spouse should never feel like a ghost or robot in their own home

✅ The research-backed communication gap: women speak 24,000 words daily while men speak only 12,000

✅ Why 55% of your message impact comes from non-verbal communication

✅ The biblical case for prioritizing your spouse over your children

✅ How to restart your marriage covenant with intentional purpose

Related Scripture Study:

📖 Mark 3:25 – "A house divided against itself cannot stand"

📖 Philippians 2:3-4 – "Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself"

This is Part 5 of our Strong Marriage Conference series, featuring guest speaker Pastor Lee and his wife Tanya leading couples through a powerful marriage vow renewal ceremony.

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