12/22/25

The Naked Truth: Unscripted Marriage Wisdom After 36 Years Together | Under God Podcast Episode 245

What does marriage really look like after 36 years? In this powerful episode from our marriage conference series, Pastor Lee and Tonya reveal the unvarnished truth about long-term marriage in a session they call "The Naked Truth."

The premise is simple but vulnerable: answer questions about your marriage that you've never discussed before—on camera, with a timer, and no rehearsal. What unfolds is an authentic, often hilarious, deeply moving conversation about everything from falling in love to navigating menopause to rediscovering each other as empty nesters.

What You'll Discover:

✅ How honest communication becomes easier when you stop wearing feelings on your shoulder

✅ The real impact of menopause on intimacy and what every husband needs to understand

✅ Why quality time and connection require intentional prioritization after kids leave

✅ How love languages evolve through different seasons of marriage

✅ Balancing ministry partnership with maintaining your marriage relationship

✅ The importance of being "there" emotionally, not just physically, in intimacy

Pastor Lee shares candidly about learning to understand his wife's changing needs, while Tonya opens up about the evolution from physical connection to emotional intimacy. Their willingness to discuss these topics publicly models the kind of healthy conversations every couple needs.

This episode is Part 3 of our Marriage Conference series, featuring sessions designed to equip couples with biblical wisdom and practical tools for building lasting marriages.

📖 Scripture Foundation:

📖 The role of the Holy Spirit in guiding marriage relationships

📖 God's Word as the foundation for working through any conflict

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